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our code of conduct

We’re all about celebrating the joy, freedom, and fun of pup play while keeping our space safe, supportive, and inclusive for all. Whether you’re new to the pack or a seasoned alpha, these guidelines help keep our community pawsome for everyone.

Our Mission: A Safe, Playful Space for All Pups!

We’re here to create a tail-waggingly positive environment where pups, handlers, and friends can connect, explore, and learn without fear of judgment or harm. As a member, you represent Pup Play South Africa both online and in public spaces. Let’s keep our reputation strong by being respectful, kind, and responsible wherever we go.

Core Values: Respect, Consent, and Inclusion

Respect: Treat every pup, handler, and packmate with kindness. No bullying, discrimination, or hate speech – that includes race, gender, body image, disability, and sexuality.

Consent: Consent is EVERYTHING. Always ask before engaging, messaging privately, or sharing someone else’s content.

Inclusion: This is a judgment-free zone where pups of all identities and kinks can feel welcome and celebrated.

Accountability: Remember, you represent Pup Play South Africa in all pup spaces, events, and public forums. Misrepresenting our community through harmful actions will not be tolerated.

Content Privacy & Security

While we take all necessary security measures to protect our community, it is strictly prohibited to take screenshots, copy, reuse, or paste any content without the original owner's explicit permission. This includes, but is not limited to, media, images, and general chats on any of our online communities.

Respecting each other’s privacy helps maintain a safe and trustworthy space for all members.

Our Playground, Our Purpose

At Pup Play South Africa, we celebrate diversity and inclusivity within the kink community. While all kinks are welcome and supported, this is, first and foremost, a safe space for pup play.

Whether you’re a seasoned pup, a dedicated handler, or someone curious about exploring pup play for the first time, this space is for you! We encourage everyone to engage through their pupsona or handler persona or try it out in a safe and welcoming environment if you're still finding your way.

This is your opportunity to discover and develop your unique pup play identity, connect with like-minded individuals, and immerse yourself in the joy, freedom, and playfulness that define our community.

Let’s create a space where everyone feels included, encouraged, and celebrated on their journey, no matter where they're starting.


Happy exploring and wagging!

We’d love to meet you! Please introduce yourself, share your pup name, and tell us what makes your tail wag!


If you are unsure of how to introduce yourself, start with the basics.


Name:

Age:

Pronouns:

Orientation:

Social Media Links:

About you (bio):

Interests:

Not Interested in:


Remember to post an image of your pup.

Play nice or go to the pound!

Consent is Sacred:

No unsolicited DMing without consent.

No personal information, pics, or content sharing without clear, explicit permission.

If someone asks for space, stop all contact immediately.

No means no. Consent and safety are the foundation of our community. If you’re uncomfortable or unsafe, speak up. Contact an admin or moderator immediately if you cannot do so directly.


Respect is Non-Negotiable:

No harassment, kink-shaming, or personal attacks.

Racism, sexism, body-shaming, and discrimination of any kind will not be tolerated.

Everyone has a bark (voice), respect that. You can disagree, but be respectful. Rudeness has no place in our pack or community.


NSFW & Restricted Content:

Some areas of our community allow for NSFW (Not Safe For Work) content, but NO underage or illegal content is permitted, ever.

Keep it classy, pups! NSFW content belongs in designated spaces only.

Unsolicited nudes outside of the dedicated spaces? Big nope.

Sharing explicit content? Consent first, always.

If you share within a consented DM, ensure it’s legal and ethical.


Community Safety First:

Age Matters: Our community is strictly 18+. Some clubs or events may impose their own age restrictions—check with the event organiser before attending.

Harassment of any kind will not be tolerated: verbal, physical, sexual, or emotional.

No promotion or sale of illicit substances. What you do outside the community is your choice, but encouraging or linking such behaviour to Pup Play South Africa won’t be tolerated.


Event Sharing & Promotion:

Feel free to share pup-friendly events with a verified event link.

Consent is key for event photos. Get permission before posting group shots.


Keep It Legal, Keep It Ethical:

Absolutely no illegal acts. This includes underage content, non-consensual material, or any content involving harm.

Illicit substances should not be promoted or used at our events or in our communication spaces.

Engaging in illegal or unethical behaviour that could reflect poorly on Pup Play South Africa may result in removal from the community.

If something feels off, let our admins know. We’re here to help!

Spot a concern? Tag any admin or message a moderator directly.

No drama zones: Keep personal conflicts out of public chats.

Protect Each Other: Speak up if you see something concerning or unsafe. We’re stronger when we look out for each other.


For Emergency Support, please visit our Support Page.

Be a Good Pup – Enjoy the Pack!

These rules keep our space playful, welcoming, and safe for all pups. Follow them, and you’ll have a barkin’ good time!

Now, boop some snoots, fetch some fun, and make this community paw-some together!